Jan 23 2009
“It will all work out”
It’s funny how people say, “it will work out,” in EVERY situation. When you’re in the middle of a horrible break up, the last thing you want to hear is how, “it will all work out,” but most likely, you’ll hear it more than once. It’s funny, but it’s the truth. Somehow, someway it does all work out. A year ago I was faced with losing the longest relationship of my entire life, romantic relationship that is, and I was devestated. Not sure what to do, where to turn, I remember the burning feeling in the pit of my stomach. I felt like a 15 year old girl that had been dumped. It was horrible and I honestly did not believe the feeling would ever pass. I was sure I would be unhappy until the day I died.
And yet, here I am…as happy and content as I ever remember being. The boys and I have as close to a stressfree life as possible. Sure, money is tight…sure, I get concerned about our future, their future sometimes…but all in all, we are exactly, completely happy. They will never know the stress of the last year, the constant worry about how it would all work out. It has worked out, just as promised. Even though I know there will be bumps here and there, in our road, we will always have each other. The 3 Musketeers…they may never understand how much they mean to me. And honestly, I don’t know if I’ll ever try to explain to them how they were my rocks during the past year. That’s a lot to lay on the shoulders of two precious little ones, but it’s true. They have been my CONSTANT over the past year.
So, the next time someone tells you, “it will all work out,” keep in mind…most likely, it will.
